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I have seen a homestudy, the one my parents went through when they adopted me.
Yes I understand that a child needs health information. You have NO idea how much I understand that, I'm adopted from the closed era and have very little health information.
I hardly think I am being petty for being interested in the health of the people I was considering for my child's parents. If I can be eliminated b/c of a history of heart disease in my family then I should be able to not choose adoptive parents based on that correct? Yes a family chose not to adopt our child b/c of my former partner's family's health history.
I didn't ask to see a home study, nor would I have. I don't feel I am petty at all. I think you missed my point in that we reveal some pretty personal stuff too and yes you can use that information in deciding whether you want to consider an emom as a possible match.
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