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As a Christian, I look at things a bit differently, I KNOW that God had His hand on my life, but I don't neccessarily think of it as "destiny", per se. Choices were made, consequences took place, and I was placed for adoption. Was it God's intention that I was placed for adoption? I am not sure....but as a believer I believe that "all things work together for good" and I believe that my life has worked out for my good. My life is completely different then it would have been had I not been adopted. In life we ALL have choices....the bparents, the aparents, and the adoptee(we may not have chosen adoption, but we make choices about how we react to it, and our everyday life choices) I believe that God will guide me, direct me, ect but ultimately the choice to listen to Him is my own. I do not believe that God is a dictator, He gives us FREE CHOICE, but He will guide us in our life....IF we allow Him! I think that we blame too much on God, that was our own doings. Just like too many people say, "the devil made me do it", when it was really their own choice! Life is made up of circumstances, and reactions to them.......
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"Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being."
-Goethe
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 Nobody puts Baby in a corner!
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