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lucky you
Hi. Birthmum in reunion here.
I look at your situation as a HUGE priviledge. To have the oppurtunity to mother your bdaughter...wow!
I dont know of anyone else in your situation...but there surely is someone where.
The situation in which your daughter has found herself must be gut wrenching for her. To lose her amum, and then to be seemingly tossed aside by birthdad will have sooooo many ramifications for her. Maybe after some time out her adad will want to come back into the picture, but maybe not.
I almost feel envious, I fantasize about this scenario, although of course not wishing the other losses that have occurred for you both to be in this situation. Keep loving her Scorpio, along with acceptance this is what she needs most.
The fact that she has been allowed to move in with you is a huge forward step for you and her.
No it wont be easy, but check out some of the posts from bmums crying inside and just waiting for the tiniest scrap of communication from their lost children.And of course vice versa!!!
Chin up, look at the positives and you will be successful.
Keep posting...would love to hear how you are getting On.
Susie
Last edited by susieloo : 10-16-2007 at 08:21 PM.
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