[SherBear2528]

We didn't really get that 'real' comment until our fourth child joined the family - he's a biological son. So people have said things like that as well as "and he's your own?" I just say, "well, they're all mine." And people say, "you know what I mean."
Most people don't mean anything by it, they just don't get the same education as far as terminology that we do as we go through the adoption process. It's interesting, but the more people we kindly educate, the better world we will have in the future.