[Vogi2002]

I personally would not allow an emom to see our homestudy, but it was very very personal. I KNOW that the emom is putting her trust in us, but we are also putting our trust in her too, and I wouldn't ask to see her answers either if she had to answer some of the questions we were asked. I did however answer a long questionairre specifically for the emom (including my opinion/view on open adoption). I would be okay with sharing this or even my homestudy if they did it to where it was appropriate for the person to see (I also had first and last names on it, ages, DOB, etc of my family and I WOULD NOT be willing to share these either in this identity theft driven world....).

I also would not share my income. Maybe my debt to income ratio...but not my income, that is noone's business IMO and while I do see it as important I don't think that income itself has anything to do with parenting, more so about debt or how you spend that money (but I'm old fashioned like that, noone knows our income and I know plenty of people who make a LOT but who owe WAY more).



Another thought, you could always write your questions down and have them answer them and return it to you BEFORE the meeting, then discuss the answers with them. That way you don't forget anything and will have time to process thier answers and your questions about them KWIM?