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Next question - I just found out I am going to be 15 minutes away from my bson's home next Thursday. Given my recent "turmoil" I am thinking I should let him know but at the same time, I want him to take the next step. What do you (and others) think? I have limited time available, and my instinct tells me to say, hey kiddo, I'm in town and I will make time for you if you want, if not, I'll take the extra time to plan for our next visit.
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Again its standing back and seeing the whole thing.
In the anger thread you write that you feel you are reaching out all the time and are doing all the emotional work of the reunion.. (my take on your words)
Is it worth going through all the emotions involved?
Take care of you.. I say.
I know I take care of me in my reunion.. I make sure I can handle things when they go down.. because I know I am broken in places where he is concerned.. I know it..
I give myself permission to say no.. and I am willing to suffer the consequences..
The emotional wringer is awful.. for some of us.. I am no longer willing to jump in..
Jackie