[DeafSiren]

Thanks everyone for your posts--smithlinda, I hope you do get to put a post like this one very soon. I'm so sorry to hear about your son's death. That is truly a tragedy that can't be explained. I think these "well-meaning" people just want to make sense of the world. My sister's mother-in-law is like this and my sister's way of dealing with it is to preface any comment she makes with "Kiki, bless her heart, said..."

Anyway, yes life is very good. As we speak DH is holding Bumblebee and smiling and interacting with him...that surprised me because I know men tend to not relate as well until babies are older. But he's just as much in love as I am. Hooray!

--L.