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This case just blows my mind and pains me because I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. I can't understand how ASFA failed on this one...she should have been freed for adoption 2+ years ago.
Until the "fat lady sings" I would keep a log of your visits and any other interaction (late night phone calls). Notate your fd's behavior at visits, dress, anything odd and address all of these things with the caseworker. The 11pm phone call is inappropriate and an indicator that mom is in over her head--the caseworker needs to know this.
I'm still praying for you....
Jennifer
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Apr 2004: Licensed for "fost/adopt"
May 2007: Foster-Angel #2 arrives..it's a girl 
Sept 2007: SHSP/Infant-child CPR certified
Oct 2007: Case plan changed to adoption 
Dec 2007: Case plan approved!
June 2008: Guardianship granted!
Oct 2008: Adoption finalized! We're officially a family! 
Aug 2009: Updated homestudy in hopes of adopting again 
Oct 2009: Matched! We're in the visitation stage prior to placement  Very hopeful that things will go smoothly
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