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IMO, if you are a believer in destiny, then things happen the way they are supposed to be. Things happen for a reason. Things are meant to be. When Dee (bmom) chose adoption for her unborn baby, she definetly changed the dynamics of her child's life. My daughter is living a COMPLETELY different way of life than her birthfamily. But that doesn't change or take away her gentic connection to them.
If you want to look at things philosophically, both my children are being raised in a loving, warm, supportive and financially sound enviorment. My husband & I are their greates supporters and advocates. But it's what they inevitably choose to do with their lives that will be shape their own destiny.
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