[nikkianni]

Anything you feel is important is worth asking. I know we answered some very in-depth thoughtful questions and some that we just couldn't fathom. What's your favorite color for example. If it's relevant to you, that's all that matters.
DD's bparents never asked us about whether or not we could have a bio child. They did ask us who would take care of her when I went back to work, how our dogs reacted to children, that type of thing.
Our philosophy was that above all us we needed to just be "us" and eventually the right match would come along.
Like others have said, I don't think I would be comfortable taking my daughter to a first meeting. At the moment of course she wouldn't know the difference or why we were there. But when she's older I wouldn't want to get her hopes up. I would be willing to bring her to a second or third meeting though if things were going well.