UPDATE:
I don't know how, but our 4.5yr old woke up with dry pants this morning. I gave LOTS of praise. We also started a sticker program.
I think one of the ideas that left the biggest impression yesterday on me was to realize that her staying dry all day is just too large of a feat at this time. Don't know why that didn't dawn on me earlier, but then again it's often hard to see the forest thru the trees.
So now she will have a reward every few hours when she's dry. She can pick the reward.
I'll keep checking in with progress. Cheers!

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Esther
Wife to Guy since 1992
Five children: 3 bio boys ages 12, 10, & 9, and 2 daughters adopted 9/07 ages 4 & 2
Our adoption story blog (thru gotcha day):
www.crownedwithlaurel.blogspot.com
Our current life blog (starting gotcha day):
www.nevermoveagain.blogspot.com
Because our girls will Never Move Again