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My precious boy
Thank you all SO much for your messages and opinions pertaining to my son. I feel relieved that you all feel the same as I, that I should continue to spoil but it really bothers me when these people look at me and accuse me of not exposing him to more people. I will "let that go" and do what comes naturally. I love this little boy so much, and just love to hear his little belly laugh, and make those cute crazy sounds as he develops his speech. My husband is equally attentitive and we both think he will out grown this but it is nice to hear others opinions to validate what I am doing is good.
I also appreciate the clarification of "special needs". I'm not sure what the definition would be in my state, but I'll look into it.
As far as the birthmother using drugs, etc. I can't say for sure, but we have spent a lot of time with her and she had great prenatal care. She's very religious and health-conscious as far as we could tell. I'm not as concerned about his mental state, he is developing normally according to the doctor, and his apgar scores were 9 and 9, so I think his fine.
Anyway, thanks again for your feedback. I greatly appreciate your time in writing back.
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