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Old 10-09-2007, 06:20 AM
Jackiejdajda Jackiejdajda is offline
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First let me say, Happy Thanksgiving, Jackie, late I know, but I was off camping again, and just got home. Sorry it took me so long to reply.

Hello Colleen.. Its finally getting colder here.. The yard was full of blackbirds this morning.. they are getting ready to head south..
I hope you had a good camping trip.. We are keeping our camper.. but I just like to stay here..

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When I stopped reacting, she stopped writing. I had to choose, what was more important, talking to her, and being hurt, or not having her talk to me, and being sad. I took the sad, it did a lot less damage. I could heal that, the hurt, I could not.

One of my favourite self help people once said.. or wrote.. “Remove the victim.”

We get to take care of ourselves.. I wanted to alert you to this thread.. I wish we could give Rose a group hug..

Jackie
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