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My advice to you on the birthday wishes is to do what is best for you. Will it help you to send a text? If the answer is yes, then send it, if you are just doing it because you feel he expects it, then don't. I have found, through many years of being in and out of my birthdaughters life, that doing what is best for me, is about all you can hope for sometimes. There are no rules, and sometimes it feels like we are doing everything wrong. So, if sending a text saying happy birthday is wrong, I couldn't even begin to tell you what is right. I have said in past post, who doesn't love to get birthday wishes. Just to know you are remembered is special, no matter what your relationship. Try not to over think everything, you may miss your chance. Sometimes I think we waste far to much time wondering what our birthchildren will think. Who worries about what we think or feel. Do what is right for you.
Colleen
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