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I say text him a simple "Happy Birthday". He knows you're thinking of him, and he knows you aren't trying to crowd him.
He's so young. My guess is he's trying to separate from the parents he knows, not add a new one. He's probably happy you're around, and he knows how to get in touch, but not necessarily willing to do so yet.
Heck, I'm 40, and I'm happy to have my bmoms info, but I've never used it. (only had it a few months). There's something comforting about knowing, but not having to make the decision yet. Maybe he's in the same boat.
Hang in there. He'll soon see how terrific you are.
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