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First of all, congratulations!!!!!
Second of all, no, I hate that "describer"! I use it here (for clarification) but not IRL.
The "telling" thing has been really hard for me. On the one hand, I am so thrilled with our DD, her adoption, etc. that I want to tell the world. But on the other hand, it is important to me to try to respect HER privacy (it's HER story, you know?). In your situation, though, I can see it coming up a lot!!!! Maybe you could just answer, "nope! just brothers!" and leave it at that (let people scratch their head if they need to!).
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