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IndiaAdoptee,
I came accross this post by accident today (I am adopting from Guatemala) but I am so glad I did! Please do not be afraid of turning PAP's away by your comments. You have describe your feelings very elequently and in a gentle way. It is so important for us to hear about your experience and what your AP could have done differently. Right now I am reading a book called "Raising adopted children" and "20 things adopted children wish their adoptive parents new." I think that second one might be a good read for your dad. Have you tried talking to him about searching for your birthfather?
Thanks again for your wonderful insights!
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Jill
www.modernmommyblog.com
Referal 03/05/07
POA IN Guat 03/16/07
DNA Authorization 04/25/07, test done 4/26
Visit Trip 05/17-05/22
DNA Match 5/18/07
PA 7/9/07
In PGN 7/12/07
Visit Trip #2 8/9-8/13
Out of PGN: 9/14/07
GC BC: 9/28/07
2nd DNA Authorization: 10/01/07
Pink: 10/16/07
Gotcha Day: 10/22/07 
Embassy Appointment: 10/24/07 
Home Forever: 10/26/07
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