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The Wrong Reasons
There are many wrong reasons to make contact with a Bio-parent. I had rather tell you the right reasons. Bio-Parents that are met with love, forgiveness, and understanding have better chances of being successful than those met with guilt, what if's, and sorrow. I didn't spend 5 months a hard research looking for my Dad to make him feel bad for what he did. I looked him up to thank him and tell him that I love him. I cannot redo the past. He cannot redo the past. We have many wonderful tomorrows. My Dad told me that was his biggest concern in meeting with me, was that I was going to make him feel bad and place so much guilt on him that he couldn't stand himself. He said and I quote, "Darling I have beat myself up for over 54 years and cried a river, but it never changed anything until you come back into my life and showed me how much you love me and without asking you forgave me"! I can now forgive myself"!!
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