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Originally Posted by sjdodge
Deb,
Just read through all the posts in this link. I am a bmom iso a son, born 3 Jan 1982, in Fayetteville, NC. I placed my son in LDSS in May 1982 after trying to care for him myself without the support of my family or church. I am not bitter towards the church or LDSSS in anyway, just want to reunite with a much missed and loved first born. He was placed through Charlotte, NC office and I was told he could have gone anywhere in the east. Do you have any recommendations? Thank you.
Sandi
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Have you contacted the Charlotte office? They should have your info. They can get non-id info (usually for a fee) but if your son were ever to look for you, that would be where he would go. So you need to make sure yuor info there is up-to-date, maybe put a letter in your file with your information, so he can get it if/when he begins to search. They can also tell you if he or his adoptive parents have left contact information for you. LDSSS (now LDSFS) has a policy that they will not give out contact info unless they have express permission from the other party to release it. So you may want to give them that permission (they may have a form for you to fill out) so they can give that info to your son if he ever comes asking. They do not search for you, they only pass along information they have permisison to pass along.
Otherwise, you will have to search in more traditional ways - with search angels, PIs, etc - those in the general "Search and Reunion" forums would have good ideas for you.