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Reading posts like this one helps me not be so angry with aparents.
My life was changed forever after giving up my baby for adoption. It was the most difficult thing I've ever dealth with and then the reunion and all the problems with her aparents and now not being able to talk to her at all because of the amom.
I'm thankful to know that aparents do read stuff about the struggles of the bmom. It really is a hurt that never goes away giving our child up.
I wish there had been a good LDS family that my daughter had gone to but unfortunately, they were nuts and shouldn't have had the right to adopt a child.
I wish there had been people like you guys out here who care about the bmom and what she goes through.
It will help the bmom so much knowing her decision to give her baby up was a good one if the child goes to a family that actually loves them and isn't adopting for some kind of "mental problem to solve" like my daughter's aparents had. They thought adopting a child would be something that would "fix their problems".
Thank you for posting things like this post. It really helps some in changing feelings towards that part of the triad.
Rylee
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