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I would imagine though that at times even though the regret isn't about the adoptive parents, that it could be hard for some to not take it personally. I suppose, it would take alot of work on the adoptive parents' part - I also think they need to be secure in their role as parents.
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It is hard and, for me at least, will take work. But it's a completely separate issue from feeling secure as my son's parent. It can be a little irksome when any struggle adoptive parents have gets labeled as insecurity in their role as parents. Being secure as a mom doesn't make everything else easy or make me immune from struggling with things. Just my 2 cents.
