[wannabamom]

IndianAdoptee,

I really think you are absolutely right. A lot of people and their emotions are involved in an adoption process!!!!!
Ofcourse, an adoptee's feelings of identity, etc.. should be understood. Also, from the view of both the biological and the adoptive families, everyone has gone through so much for the upbringing of a child !!!!! I am not saying that anyone has performed a charity, but still, everyone gets a family when an adoption takes place!!! And I really hope you find what you're looking for and happiness to all your loved ones!!!!!!
Thanks for answering our questions and doubts.