[TweetyMom04]

We have been very cautious who we tell. We live in a small village about 250 people. When I had to take our Sons to the Doctor, especially for DS-G, the Doctor started asking Q's about the PG, length of term, any problems with delivery, etc. I could have answered those questions, we do have that information. Instead, I was honest and stated "they are both Adopted, from Russia." His jaw dropped, he became white as a sheet and I knew that "honesty was not the best policy" in answering and regret saying so. In front of our Sons and me, his professional demeanor changed and became very stand-offish. If the Doctor won't treat them, we shudder to think what the Village would do to us if word got out. That said, this is why we are very low-key on the subject.

When we have the talk with our Sons, at an age appropriate time and when they can understand the words, then they can choose whom to tell or not.

We Adopted Our Sons at 8 mo of age. We have pictures of them at 6 mo of age.

I agree w/leeinmemphis. As for our Family Tree, our Sons are included as this is their Family Tree.