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yes the introduction thing is a bit strange, but I am hoping it will all fall in place as time goes on, I found it tricky especially in situations where you did not have the time or it was just inappropriate to take the time to explain it at the time ( not being the right time or place) so yes I do understand how you feel, and it seems to make me want to avoid situation like that for right now.
JordansMom, I agree with yarrow on the money thing....it can cause problems, but I know how you would want to share also..... it will be hard to find a balance.....How about to have your son or his GF earn money by doing little things for you....then it won't seems so much that you are out-doing the adopted parents with lavish gifts. young couples can always use some extra money for things.
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