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sstuart and Keds, thank you for your understanding.
kakuehl and SchemennaLeigh, I think you misunderstood my post. I'm not so different as you might think. Nor am I exactly the same. As I said, in my previous post, and many times before, all birthmothers, whether in open, semi-open, or closed adoptions, have their own seperate problems. I am not discounting your pain, and I hope you are not discounting mine.
You make it sound as if it's a question of grief. There is no question of that. We're all hurting.
The original question was, "Birthparents, whether in a closed or open adoption; aren't we all the same????"
As I replied in my orginal post, we are, especially in that we are all hurting, but not in every way. I thought the question was open for a much more complex answer.
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