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JL,
I do not know if it was the same person that you spoke with or not..But here is why he was helpful for me and bdad in our particular situation.
As we were walking out of court after the termination hearing, our pregnancy counselor proceeded to tell us that IF thy found someone whom they felt was more suitable that they could move our bdaughter from the home we "selected" due to the fact that she was now in their custody.....
Needless to say, after just signing the rights away to our child I was an emotional basket case...
I started making phone calls, and the director (his name was bill) wrote a statement that was faxed to the aparents attorney stating that she (bdaughter) would not be moved barring extenuating circumstances (abuse neglect etc was my understanding)...so in that sense he was helpful.
Like I stated though, our pg counselor, was wretchid to us, but according to her "My aa bmoms just love me to death" she had complaints against her from others etc, but then there were those that loved her and thought that she was grand....
Although I will admit, we were told that our pg counselor was being terminated and then later found out that she was chosen to head up a new program...As of now though, she is no longer with the particular branch office we placed through.
And that was out of the mouth of both the supervisor of the office as well as the director....
Anyways, that was four years ago, and I guess I just learned to deal with the yucky treatment and get passed it? although I will admit, it wasn't till the beginning of 02 or so that I was able to do so.
Take care
Lisa
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