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Originally Posted by sal
I'm sorry for your loss....I'm a reunited adoptee... and since you and your birthson have some contact... I WOULD let him know that his birthfather died....If that were me.. I'd want to know...I never liked having the "secrets" of my adoption kept from me...I prefer the truth...however painful that may be....sal
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Honesty is the best policy here. Does anyone really want to be lied to? I don't, I would rather know the truth no matter what and deal with it. If he is lied to and then later on finds out the truth don't you think that will cause him not to trust everything you tell him from then on??