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I think much of it is the stereo typing, that somehow we must have been bad people( on drugs, alcoholics,or we are just so callus that we don't care). I agree with keds, until I came to this forum I have kept my feelings to myself and often still do. Noone that I work with knows I had a daughter 21 years ago. I was always through school one of the "good girls" I was a rule follower. Until I broke them and then I did not want to be a "disappointment" I am not a bad person, but when I hear people talk about bmoms it is always a comment that we didn't care and take the "easy way out" After 21 years it is not one bit easier and now seems even more difficult
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