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Mine was a closed adotpion and DD is now an adult. But if I had to see her growing up whether there were pictures or visits I think it would tear my heart out every time. There have been times when I think I wish I would have done an open adoption, then I would know she was ok. But when I really start thinking about being a bystander looking it, I think that would tear me up.
I think they are different, but both are a greif that very few understand. I am sure both have heard that you took the "easy way out" and gave your baby up.
I have two children now and I think this is much easier than having to place my child. I know it was the best think for the situation, but it causes many people much greif.
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