[thanksgivingmom]

I'm torn on this and have two very different opinions...

The first is that it would be helpful as keds said because I would know that there could be a positive outlook on behalf of my child having been adopted. This reassurance is huge for me.

The second would be that, despite your best intentions, the adoptee telling eparents how great adoption was for them might be used by the agency as a means to influence one into adoption. Like I said, even if this wasn't your intention, it could be the end result...

I'm not sure entirely....