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Hi there, closed adoption too. For me as my oldest daughter said her first word, first day of school, first crush, driver's licence and off to university reminded me of my bson and how much I had missed with him. After meeting him last year and receiving his photo album I realized even more, all his trophies he won, his parent's divorce (which crushed me), and I guess the hardest was his graduation from the same program/university as his bdad (my husband). Although that was the most difficult it was also the proudest (can I even say that) moment for me as it made me think for the first time that adoption was the "right" decision for him. all the best.
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