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keds
I'm sure you know the answer I'm going to give. .........YOU ASK HIM. Honestly, unless you sort out these boundaries now you will spend the next 6 months or so to..ing and fro..ing - trying to work out if he is mad at you, or wondering what has offended him. Fear in thought is a lot worse than fear in fact. Just pluck up the courage to ring that cell-number....tell him you have been worried....tell him you may be irrational but you want to know what he considers sufficient contact rather than too-much contact. If he says "whenever" ask him if twice weekly is too much (or whatever time frame you think would settle your heart). There;s no hard and fast rules - only the ones you make between yourselves.
Do it girl....you know you can!!!! I hope you can....b'cause stressing and hoping and wondering just doesn't do you any good. You are still left without an answer.
Ann
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