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Originally Posted by keds
Quantum, excellent comment. I am comparing the silence post reunion to that before. Part of the reason I am afraid to call/write my bson has to do with having to keep quiet all these years and the uncomfortable (right word?) feeling I get when talking about everything. I have yet to let down my guard totally and I like to say it's because I don't want bson to see how hard it's been but I think it has more to do with the fact that I'm not "supposed" to say anything. Lord, I could keep a therapist in gold for years!
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Oh I hear you! I think this is a big part of why it's so hard for me to talk about it with my parents and tell new people.
Plus yes, I don't know how to talk to my son! Or what's appropriate to tell him, or when etc etc.