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I'm sorry, Leigh......
This is going to sound horrible, but I hope that you can take it as a "compliment" to you...
DD's birth parents are GREAT...really, realy nice people and so respectful fo us....And I like to think we are respectful of them as well ( actually, I know we are).
You know what's "scary" sometimes to me....DD's birth parents could definitely have parented her ....and very well (they parent two other children)....And sometimes the "better adjusted' and "more loving, normal" birth mom, the HARDER OA is...you know? It's like it's MORE threatening in that darnit, DD's birth parents could be parenting her and well....I know that's so hard...b/c it's like "heads I win" (I have a dysfunctional birth family and don't want contact), tails you lose (i have a great birth family that makes me insecure)....I'm sorry!!!!
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