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Originally Posted by bajj
Amen sister! I have always felt this way too. It's so hard being so happy knowing how devestated someone else is. I have to remind myself that my children's First Mothers did not choose me because they wanted me to be sad for them and feel sorry for them for the rest of their lives. They chose me because they thought I would be the best parenting choice for their child. That usually helps, but it is hard!
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Add another Amen over here!! This was SO hard for me at the last visit because it was the first time I saw his birthmother in pain....the first visit she was cheerful. Whew the emotions...you read them in a book but there is no preparing you..