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Originally Posted by lonni
This thread is wonderful.
For myself, I have always had trouble reconciling the fact that my joy comes on the back of another familie's devastation;~((
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Amen sister! I have always felt this way too. It's so hard being so happy knowing how devestated someone else is. I have to remind myself that my children's First Mothers did not choose me because they wanted me to be sad for them and feel sorry for them for the rest of their lives. They chose me because they thought I would be the best parenting choice for their child. That usually helps, but it is hard!