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For some reason, at this point, I haven't really given this much thought, nor does it really bother me. At this point.
So far, Meg doesn't really call J anything--she sees her every other month or so, and repeats her name when I say it, but she doesn't know her like she knows other people in her life.
J usually signs cards "mommy J" which doesn't bother me--maybe because it is infrequent.
Once I was on the phone with her and a friend of hers was over--they asked, "who is it" and she said, "It's Megan's mom" "Who's Megan?" "Megan's my daughter, Michelle is her mom." I smiled at that explanation, and felt totally comfortable with that as an answer.
I have no idea if there was a look of confusion on the guy's face or not! J always refers to me as Mom when we're together.
Good topic--I know feelings vary on this far and wide!
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