Hi Indiaadoptee !
Thanks so much for that. I will Have my husband read this post.
I think he is more thinking of the teenage years when your then son or daughter wants to distance themselfs from the parents. The, your not my real father anyway comment....... well I guess you can get that comment from your teenage biological child too.
You said that you were worried to hurt your parents feelings because you feel you want to find out more about your birthfather.
I would think that is the most natural thing in the world..... Ofcourse you would want to know more, well I would, and if my husband and I would adopt I think I would even try to help our child as much as I could to find what ever information he or she wanted. Wouldn't finding out more about yourself make you feel more content ?
Maybe talk to your parents about it or ask them how would they feel if you wanted to find out more about your birthfather.....
They might not realize that you are thinking about it.
Anyway, thats just what I think
