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Finding Mom
I guess my first question, would be why did you ever look for your Bio-Mother? Things were not good then and they still are not. An Adoptee takes a chance when they find their Bio-Family. It could turn out very bad and be destructive. That is why most Judges are against releasing records for Adoptees. The risks are very high and there can be much emotional pain to deal with. You have too much pain to deal with and you cannot forgive some things from the past. I am not saying you are wrong, I am just saying you found your Bio-Mother for the wrong reasons. I found my
Bio-Dad after 54 years. I has made up my mind that I was not going to hold anything from the past against him. If he turned out to be somethig that scared me or made me feel uneasy, then I would meet him and walk out of his life forever. It is all about choices. Your choice may be to put our Bio-Mom back in the past and continue your life without her. Whatever you do, don't struggle with her. Make your peace and choice and stick with it.
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