I dont know if you have done any of this, I thought I would pass the info on to you
Obtaining Non-Identifying Information:
Adopted adults, adoptive parents of a minor adoptee, or birth parents can receive non-identifying information through the registry. The age of majority is 18.
Using a Confidential Intermediary:
Confidential intermediary services are provided through the registry.
Using the Adoption Registry:
The following persons may use the registry: adopted adults, adoptive parents of minor adoptee, and birth parents. At the request of an adopted adult, or of a minor adoptee with permission from his or her adoptive parents, the registry will conduct a search for birth relative(s) who have not registered.
Contact:
New Jersey Department of Human Services
(for public agency adoptions only)
Division of Youth and Family Services
Adoption Registry Coordinator
PO Box 717
Trenton, NJ 08625
(609) 984-6800
(609) 292-8816
http://www.state.nj.us/humanservice...on/registry.htm
Obtaining an Original Birth Certificate:
An adoptee must petition the court in which the adoption was finalized to receive.
There are alot of free on line registires available, if you type "New Jersey Adoption Reuinon Registires" into your search engine you should get quite a few back. Have you registered with the ISRR yet? There web page is
www.ISRR.net , they are a free, national registry ( you need to download the application and mail it in )
Good Luck,
Theresa