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Old 08-22-2007, 10:47 AM
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I don't know how I could have made them uncomfortable really. I was very friendly and just wanted to see their baby and was being as nice as I could.

I was trying very hard to be sensitive to their feelings. I only mentioned that I'd given a baby up for adoption because I wanted them to know I was familiar with the LDSFS.

They never said a nice thing to me once they heard I'd given my baby up 15 years prior.

I don't understand why someone would be uncomfortable with me being a bmom. There was no way that their baby could have been mine. I'd see it if some girl comes up, says, "I just gave my baby up through LDSFS. Can I see your baby?" Then I think they'd have a reason to be nervous. Fearing it was their child's bmom. I don't know.

I just wondered if other aparents felt that same way and if they do feel uncomfortable, why do they feel that way?

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