I see what you are saying, but I do not agree with you...I am not experiencing any kind of primal wound. My bmom did not want to see me after birth...it was a choice she made. She also did drugs while pregnant with me and when I found her, she very quickly told me that if she had known that she was pregnant early enough, she would have aborted me. Not all bmom's feel like you do. Not all bmom's love their children. I DID NOT bond with my biological mother. I do believe that I bonded with those who nutured and cared for me. My adopted parents are my REAL parents...no one else is.
Also...thanks so much debsdone, lemonchutney and leeza, I totally agree with all your posts. It is nice to finally have some adoptees see things the way I do.
. I thought I was the only one out here who was thankful to be born AND thankful that I was relinquished.
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Erika