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Amen Lemonchutney. It is unfortunate that those who complain the loudest that their "feelings" aren't being validated can be so quick to impose a generalization. I am also a bit tired of hearing about statistics and "science". Both statistics and "science" can prove or disprove whatever we want. It simply depends of which studies you choose to believe. At 45, I KNOW how I feel about things, AND how I don't feel. If that threatens someone's sense of selfworth, the problem is theirs, not mine. I shouldn't need to "suffer" to validate my birthmother. My existance is enough to validate her and her decision. This gets so old! Nobody has a right to tell me, or anyone, how we should feel. Especially when it is just to serve a need in THEM to be important! Love, Debi
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