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I sure wish the people who adopted my daughter would have wanted to keep contact with me.
I begged the agency for pictures of my daughter and even forwarded letters to be given to her but they never gave my daughter's aparents any of the stuff I had sent.
When my daughter tried to find out who I was from the agency when she turned 18 years old, they wouldn't even give her the stuff I'd sent them to her.
They kept them in the file but they refused to give her anything.
It wasn't until we actually met and insisted on getting the things in my file meant FOR my daughter that I'd sent that we were able to get it. I had to threaten with a lawyer in order for us to get that stuff.
So, even if you send it to the agency there's no guarentees that the bmom will get them. Especially if it's a closed adoption.
They will probably use the, "She wanted a closed adoption because she didn't want to be contacted."
That's what they told my daughter even though they KNEW because of my begging and pleading for information even a first name of my daughter for all those years that I wanted to find her and know her.
It was a nightmere!
Rylee
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