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Quantum, I forget how old your son is. D and I still talk mostly by IM. (after almost 2 years). We don't often talk about "emotions" although I'm more likely to tell him what I thinking/feeling. We both talk about what frustrates us at work, lol! As the others say, try to relax and keep it low key. I do understand the paranoia, though! Actually, one of the first things D did was tell me something he said was sarcasm. (I had assumed it was!) My reward has been that when I asked him to describe our relationship, he responded, "healthy." He then asked me my description; I said, "comfortable." I can live with comfortable (even if I am occasionally worried that I'm contacting him at a bad time...)
It sounds like you're doing just fine!
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