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It's nice to hear that people are encouraging pbmoms to consider parenting more strongly. Not all aparents are scared and rash, just like not all bparents are angrry resentful and looking to get their baby back. I have seen THAT too, and from the aparent side, it's easy to see why someone would avoid contact with a bmom who is harmfully negative and actively trying to disrupt the relationship with the aparents.
As long as both parties are honest, and well informed I think adoption is wonderful....but as soon as either party starts to become manipulative, or refuses to be educated about the other side of the triad, then it goes bad really fast!
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