I actually got to talk to my GF yesterday, and I feel much more comfortable with the whole situation. I told her all the stuff I've learned here, and I think she feels better as well. She does have a lawyer too, but has only met her once, so she will be looking into that further.
Apparently things aren't as bad there as I thought, her foster mom has just been in a terrible mood lately (car trouble among numerous other things) and I guess she just didn't want to deal with me at all. I'm still suspicios, but my GF expects things to settle and is hopeful that I'll be able to come see her again soon. She has also decided to stay there at least until she graduates, or can't stand it. She's supposed to be getting a car soon too, so I would hope she could drive herself down to see me.
The situation still sucks, but we both feel a bit better now and not completely helpless. And if nothing else, I think if we can make it through all this nasty stuff, there's not a whole lot worse life can throw at us.
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Originally Posted by ranoutofnames
Havens... how old are you?
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I'm 21. We're a little more than 3 years apart, but since we both act beyond our years its never been an issue (and perfectly legal in OH). She's actually more mature than just about all of the college bimbos I've met, and that's one of the things I like most about her. It's a shame of what people have to go through, to grow up quickly like that though.