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Originally Posted By June

Thank you for sharing how you are currently feeling. A bunch has gone on in your life. You are so right that you have emotions, major, right now. But it is really good and healthy that you are talking about it. Posting is like journaling. Have you ever journaled? It is so cool. An excellent way to begin to cleanse and "get it out" so to speak. Did you feel better, even is just a bit, after posting your post. I hope that you did. As your honesty was so helpful. It is an interesting thing that when we go through situations that are not easy we do grow stronger but why do the tears flow so very much easier???? I can relate I have that. I think of the tears as little washers. Sort of like the sprinkers. LOL. Well I want you to know that you are not alone. And people here really, really do care. I can tell by reading all the other posts.

I do believe that our there somewhere is the right birth mom that will totally appreciate you, your sensative heart, your hubby and your child. When it is right you will know it. Don't give up. Just know that you are being shaped and cleansed for what is ahead. So "go girl" you have a great deal to offer. Remember you are not the person making the decision that a birth mother chooses adoption. That will be her choice. And of course you will be the kind of person that will be honest enough to express that to her. Wanting the best for the birth mother is very important. Thanks for being part of how we all learn and grow.