Not sure if this is the right place for this comment, but here it goes!
I'll try to not offend with my observation
I have been noticing that there seem to be a lot of people who are adoptees and b/moms or adoptees and a/moms or b/mom and a/mom or even all three. I find this interesting and wonder how you all found yourselves in these situations. I'm sure, as with any adoption, that each story is unique, but wondering if there is any common thread that makes one triad member take on the other role (or all three).
I remember when I was trying (took 2 years) to get pregnant, a friend asked if I'd consider adopting, my answer was a quick no....not that I had a bad adoption (I couldn't have been given to better parents) but I did have some of the 'symptoms' that adoption can bring about and didn't want to have to endure that for my child) I also could'nt imagine placing a child either (I would find it easier to abort) I know, both very selfish comments, but my experience and thoughts none the less.
I would love to hear from anyone who has gone down the path of being more than one triad member.
Thank you
