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Haha, no the relationship is great. She got a cell phone recently, so I get to talk to her every few days, but before it could be weeks at a time before her foster mom let her call me. Its just for some reason, she doesn't trust me being around my gf. I don't know why or what that means.
She will be finishing highschool regardless, and I would never dream of persuading her against it. So few of her family has, and that's why she feels so strongly about going to college to. I figured it would be easy enough for her to transfer wherever she ends up.
About the foster mom, I've been trying to figure that out myself. Does she care, or is she just covering her own rear? She does have older kids of her own, but is also divorced, and the fact that she always wants three foster kids and so is adamant about keeping me away makes me suspicious. I can't see any reason for pushing me away when I've never encouraged my GF towards anything destructive, and she must see how depressed my absence makes her. There have been a lot of big FC related scandals in Ohio recently, so maybe she sees me as a threat for some reason. I have been trying to get the younger foster kids opinions, to see what they think about everything.
The brother that ran off was 14 and I don't think they've heard from him since. The older sister is either 21 or close, but I didn't think they'd give her custody until she was married.
I've never heard of the Guardian ad Litem, but I shall have to look into that. Thanks.
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